![]() The only reason I found out was that both of the wives came to me after things went poorly, and as the unit commander, I had to take action out of concern for their safety. I've known two couples who tried this lifestyle. You basically put his need before yours, which is often but not always admirable in a marriage, but it was something you didn't want to do, don't want to do, and now your marriage is changed forever. I really debated posting here but will because I am so sorry that you are in this situation. Has anyone else gone through this? I love him and don't want to lose him, but at the same time he showed me who he really was as long as I was doing what he wanted. I feel like he isn't the "alpha" even though that fetish was suppose to make him even more the alpha, supposedly. I have tried so hard to get my husband back, but all I can see is him asking what the other guy did and how he did it and my husband trying to be like him. ![]() Īfter everything I can't see him in the same light. But when I finally had enough of him asking when, where I was going to try to meet a new guy, I blew up and confessed I hated sleeping around. I loved the husband he was, he was surprising me all the time, cuddling, getting sweet I love you letters. During this time he was all over me and I loved it. I tried it and tried to make myself like it. So after a few months of him not giving it a rest I agreed. ![]() I was living in my bubble thinking my marriage was great. I have never been the type to sleep around, and I was perfectly happy with monogamy. My husband brought up trying this new fetish out.
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